Ever since I was a little girl, I hoped someday a Prince Charming will come into my life and we will live happily ever after. And he did ! but the fairy tale has not quite started right away(hard times huh love)..
What I did not know was that between the first kiss and the "happily ever after" there are certain things a woman should learn in order to get the fairy tale rolling
It can take months or even years to discover them, so I thought I would just share this happy relationship secret with you, so that you guys do not waste too much of your time and tears on something that would have never worked.
What I did not know was that between the first kiss and the "happily ever after" there are certain things a woman should learn in order to get the fairy tale rolling
It can take months or even years to discover them, so I thought I would just share this happy relationship secret with you, so that you guys do not waste too much of your time and tears on something that would have never worked.
Anyways, back to the secret, here it is (hope it helps) - the (drum roll please)
5 Secret Rules (in my opinion) A Woman Should Religiously Follow In Order To Make Your Fairy Tale Come True
Secret Rule #1 :
Shower Him With GENUINE Compliments
They say women like compliments. What they do not say aloud is that men LOVE them. And there is nothing to be ashamed of! When it comes to compliments, we all go weak in the knees…
Where do you start? Well, I am sure your man is great, so there should be thousands of things you can compliment on. Just go with the flow and compliment on whatever he does!
Something simple like “You always make the best toast, hunn” or “What a great idea to eat here!” will be enough to light up your man’s face. And the best part, is that we actually think that, so basically you just need to say it aloud.
Not only the compliments will make your man happy, but they will also serve as a nice way to change your man’s behavior.
Where do you start? Well, I am sure your man is great, so there should be thousands of things you can compliment on. Just go with the flow and compliment on whatever he does!
Something simple like “You always make the best toast, hunn” or “What a great idea to eat here!” will be enough to light up your man’s face. And the best part, is that we actually think that, so basically you just need to say it aloud.
Not only the compliments will make your man happy, but they will also serve as a nice way to change your man’s behavior.
For example, my boyfriend is a heavy smoker, instead of nagging him about this habbit, I would just say: “You haven’t smoked for 4 hours, love, wow, I did not know you had such a great will-power!”. And guess what? He would always last for another couple of hours without a cigarette to impress me, and i hope one day he would finally kick that habit !
Secret Rule #2 :
Always, and I Mean- ALWAYS support your man
No matter how crazy his ideas are, support your man. Wether it’s something small and insignificant (like a destination for a picnic) or something big (like his desire to change his ambition), you should always be there for him.
The thing is that there are NO right or wrong choices, they are just choices, you will never know what’s best in a long run anyway. No matter what he decides to do, just believe that he can do it. It’s your support that makes it all possible ! You know that every great man in history had a great woman by his side who truly believed in him. So, be one too !
The thing is that there are NO right or wrong choices, they are just choices, you will never know what’s best in a long run anyway. No matter what he decides to do, just believe that he can do it. It’s your support that makes it all possible ! You know that every great man in history had a great woman by his side who truly believed in him. So, be one too !
Secret Rule #3 :
Take Real Good Care Of Him
With all love and respect to men (and I DO mean it), they are not “designed” to take care of themselves (I love you despite this fact Baby). They forget to eat regularly, they forget to shower and change/wash/put away their clothes, they are so involved in doing more significant things that these little details just skip their attention.
Men might not say it, but they absolutely need our help organizing the household. Either by yourself or with hired help - it will be truly appreciated either way.
Men might not say it, but they absolutely need our help organizing the household. Either by yourself or with hired help - it will be truly appreciated either way.
Secret Rule #4 :
Learn To Cook Something
I know, I know, there is plenty of restaurants and professional chefs(Ah Fong rite Love) who can cook anything you and your man like. But that’s not the point. Here is what is:
All men without exception like to eat well. I know my baby does, and I am sure your Prince Charming does too. And what makes your home the best place to go back to from work is… a nice home prepared meal!
It can be something simple or you can cook only some part of it and get the rest from a restaurant (like I do :)), but the whole “at home dinner” experience is something you two should definitely try! Your house will feel like “home” once you guys do it.
Secret #5:
Always Stay Pretty and Polished
Remember when you first started going out and you were trying to look your best every time he saw you ? Just carry on doing it !
In general men feel happy just looking at a pretty woman, it’s how they are wired. So, just make sure you still are an eye-candy to your man. Try to look polished every time he comes through the door. Say “no” to old sweaty T-shirts, hair in a dull bun and a shiny face, opt for something more adventurous. And please do not underestimate sex and intimacy in long-term relationships - I've heard about many couples splitting over that. Just try to be as inspiring sex-wise as you used to be at the early stages of your relationship, or better yet, become even sexier! =p
In general men feel happy just looking at a pretty woman, it’s how they are wired. So, just make sure you still are an eye-candy to your man. Try to look polished every time he comes through the door. Say “no” to old sweaty T-shirts, hair in a dull bun and a shiny face, opt for something more adventurous. And please do not underestimate sex and intimacy in long-term relationships - I've heard about many couples splitting over that. Just try to be as inspiring sex-wise as you used to be at the early stages of your relationship, or better yet, become even sexier! =p
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